Three Effective Ways You Can Do When You Have Nothing to Say on A Date

Three Effective Ways You Can Do When You Have Nothing to Say on A Date

One of the best ways of having a good, healthy, and wholesome conversation with your girlfriend is to start with small talks. These small talks will give you a general idea about her likes and dislikes, as well as what she would like to discuss and what she would rather leave alone. Once the small talk gives you a general picture, you can go ahead and discuss your common likes and dislikes.

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If you happen to be dating a beautiful but a timid woman, and she’s not the talkative type…You can do these 3 approaches to avoid the moments of silence during a date –

You Have to Compliment Her – Most people are shy when meeting new people. I used to be very shy. Although when you think about it, shyness is simply a fear that others will not like you, or you feel that you may be rejected in some way. It is in our nature as humans to desire for acceptance.

Make your girl know that you like her by giving her a compliment. You need to find something that you really find attractive about her, it could be her lifestyle or her personality. She will be more open to share her beliefs and her shyness will not be an issue for a healthy conversation with you. You will also help build her confidence, too.

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You Have to Ask Her Open Questions – Asking questions is very important in establishing a basis for an effective communication. How you ask these questions open the door to knowledge and understanding. Great questions to start are “why” and “how” questions. You can use these frequently without being annoying. Your girlfriend will feel that you are interested in what she is telling you and will develop her answers.

So, it is important that you should think carefully before speaking and taking up subjects that might be repulsive or offensive to her.

You Have to Listen Attentively – When the woman starts talking about her favorite subjects (i.e., feelings, family, relationships, friends and her career) many men lose interest or even get distracted or sometimes they bring the conversation back to themselves. Men make this mistake all the time.

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Allow your girlfriend to her points of view, while you have yours. Men sometimes felt like they have either had to abandon their own beliefs in order to get a woman, or they had to fight with women about what they, as men, believe in. Both of these approaches lead to a total failure.

A woman goes on a date with you to have a great time, she is not there just to hear about your hero qualities, so spend the moment with her fruitfully. Enjoy your date!

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